Sunday 22 February 2009

the egg theatre, Bath

Yestereday, we took Jessicat to see her second ever performance at Bath's theatre for children, the egg. It was a show called The Gift, and it featured 30 minutes of songs, puppets and handling objects of different textures. Jess moved from being apprehensive about entering the auditorium to really enjoying the whole experience and wanting to go back again. She was also really excited about sharing a cheese and onion pasty with me afterwards!

I'm excited about taking Jessicat to the egg for several reasons. Firstly, it's storytelling at its finest. Even babies and toddlers can enjoy these very simple narratives brought to life with props, lighting and sound. Secondly, it's a good way of starting to share some of the things I love with Jess; to say nothing of the fact that's it's a guarenteed way for me to acutally see some theatre (as my chances of getting a break and a ticket for McKellen and Stewart in Waiting for Godot are pretty much non-existent! Such experiences should be open to every child. the egg is a magical place, and I wish there were more like it.

We managed to catch up with our good friends John and Sarah as well yesterday (their 4-year old son, Sean, is our godson). We enjoyed a pub meal whilst watching Jess and Sean run around the pub together, amusing themselves for ages by rolling trains around and attempting to play hide and seek. I'm enjoying seeing Jessicat beginning to play with other children, as opposed to simply alongside them. On Friday, for the first time ever, she actually asked me if her friend Sky could come back to our house to play!

So many good books on the go at the moment that it's hard to choose just one book of the week. So I'll go for two.

Man on the Moon by Simon Bartram. Bright, vivid pictures show Bob, the eponymous hero, going about his day job as the man on the moon. It's humourous: children would love spotting the aliens hidden on most pages, and a really unusual idea. Great for children aged 2 - 5 who have ever looked at the moon and wondered if anyone lives there.

Againby Ian Whybrow. A book that strikes a blow for the cause of reading aloud to children AND features a Dad as the reader! Lovely little story, written in rhyme, and a great book to share at bedtime.
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Sunday 15 February 2009

Hello - Dad here...

Valerie and Jessica are out at the moment so I thought I would take a rare opportunity to add something to the blog. Much of my time these days seems to be taken up with reading, making up stories or being 'the second best dancer in the world' (Jessica is the best!) so not much time to get on line. Note to self - must buy a laptop.
Jessica's enjoyment of books and stories is undiminshed. She gobbles them up like an 'incredible book-eating' girl. As Val has already mentioned she has moved on to wanting Mummy and Daddy to make up stories with various toys. She even makes a decent effort at inventing some herself when prompted. Her stories usually involve a car, or some such like, going to the local supermarket and observations made on the way (bridges, car parks,animals etc). In addition she includes her typically British fascination of the weather conditions! It's a lovely phase.
I am particularly enjoying the following books with Jessica at present:
'Again' by Ian Whybrow and Sebastien Braun. Lovely rhymes and pictures. It's lovely to see a male character reading to his cub and friends. The authors understand the magic of books.
'Wriggle and Roar' by Julia Donaldson and Nick Sharratt. Jessica has lots of fun joining in with some of the poems and listening to others.
We also enjoy anything by Lynley Dodd. I love the character of Scarface Claw.

I thoroughly endorse the views of Val over the Michael Rosen programme. Why show it at 10.30pm on BBC4? If it had been about cooking/diet it would have been on a mainstream channel at 8pm. It was good to see Caitlin Moran make a similar point, albeit briefly, in The Times yesterday. The other point I would like to make about this topic is that cookery programmes are generally based on adding to consumers fear that they need to eat healthily or their (and their children's) arteries will clog and they will die. It's a horrible, draconian way of trying to get a message over. There's none of that with books - it's more of a try it and, after a while, I can almost guarantee you will like it! It won't hurt you particularly if you don't read but there is so much to be gained if you do. The only fear is in the content of certain books!

Talking of fear, I recently read 'Duma Key' by Stephen King. That is an excellent, page turning and often creepy story. I am enjoying Stephen King novels again after quite a few years off them. He is a master story teller and actually a very good writer as well as being hugely popular.
My next book is 'Only Forward' by Michael Marshall Smith - suggested by a friend. Looking forward to reading something by an author previously unknown to me. I'll let you know how it goes! As part of this exchange of authors I have got my friend into Neil Gaiman who, I believe, is one of the finest imaginative authors around. He is thoroughly enjoying 'Neverwhere' at present which is a fantastic fantasy based in and under London. Those who enjoyed the way Phillip Pulman creates a world that is alien yet familiar would love it.

Lastly, I can't believe my daughter is already 27 months old. Time is flying and I intend to savour every moment I can so I'd better be off. Games to play, books to read!

Saturday 14 February 2009

Book of the week...

...this week it has to be the stupendously brilliant Wriggle and Roar by the splendid Julia Donaldson. Jessicat loves the rhymes and the bright illustrations that accompany them. This book could appeal to a child from about 18 months to 5 years old; it really is that versatile, and can work on several levels. Well worth trying with children who think that they won't like poetry.

The Micheal Rosen programme was as inspiring as I expected it to be. His advice to parents - take your kids to the library and read to them a bit more - was hardly earth shatteringly novel, but one that's well worth repeating as a lot of people still haven't got the message. Disappointing to see so many spanking new computers in a school, and such an impoverished and uninspiring library. Wish the programme could have been shown on terrestrial channels, where it would surely have reached a wider audience.

Jess continues to plague us for stories. Every morning, she comes into bed with us for a cuddle, and demands "Make up a story, Mummy" (or Daddy). Not as easy as it sounds when you are bleary and tired at 7am. But she would listen to made up stories ALL DAY LONG. I find I can't keep manufacturing them at a rate to keep her satisfied, even though I can still get away with a simple narrative and few characters.

As of February 2009, these are some of Jessica's favourite things:

Books - really difficult to choose, but she seems keen on poetry at the moment. And any books involving Thomas the Tank Engine (ugh).
TV Programme - Higgeldy House, Nuzzle and Scratch, Peppa Pig
Meal - sausages with baked beans followed by jelly.

Sunday 8 February 2009

A book all parents should read

As I seem to be plugging things today, let me recommend the book Baby Talk by Dr Sally Ward. This comprehensive and approachable book gives detailed advice on how to help and support your baby's developing communication skills. Refreshingly, it has a lot of advice on how to encourage children to listen - what a neglected skill this is - as well as how to talk. It's a great book and one that should be given to all parents when they leave the maternity ward. One moan: a lot of the advice given seems rather obvious (eg. don't always have the TV on in the background; read to your child; talk to your child as you play together etc), and much of the advice should be things that come naturally to the vast majority of parents. But it's still a worthwhile read simply down to the amount of detail included for each age and stage, and it's certainly a book I find myself going back to again and again.

Programmes to watch on BBC4

Really excited about a new series of programmes starting on BBC4 tonight. The first one is called Just Read and it's presented by the inimitable Michael Rosen (his presence alone guarentees something of interest), and shows him trying to get a group of primary school children excited about reading. Apparently, some of these children have never visited a library before, and Michael has to persuade the education authorities that it's worth interrupting normal lessons to get his book loving message across. How depressing to think that isn't seen as something crucial to primary school education. It's part of a season of programmes called Why Reading Matters, and I am hoping to write more about this later on.